Rape

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Rape and Sexual Assault

Myths vs. Facts

Unfortunately, society in general does not realize that men as well as women may be sexually assaulted. Many victims may sense this lack of understanding and decline to notify the police and health facilities, or may feel too ashamed to seek help.

This is especially true where it involves transgendered individuals, as the fear of public exposure can be especially intimidating.

Myths and Reality

Most rapes take place where the offender encounters the victim. People are raped where they live, work, travel, and relax. The risk is greater when alone. Offenders gain control through entrapment, intimidation and/or physical force.

Physical Reactions

Some of the physical reactions you may experience in response to the trauma of a sexual assault or rape include:

  • Loss of appetite
  • Nausea and/or stomachs
  • Headaches
  • Changes in sleep patterns
  • Changes in sexual activity
  • Withdrawal from relationships
  • Loss of memory and/or concentration

Psychological and Emotional reactions

Some of the psychological and emotional reactions a sexual assault survivor may experience include:

  • Denial and/or guilt;
  • Shame or humiliation;
  • Fear and a feeling of loss of control;
  • Loss of self-respect;
  • Flashbacks to the attack;
  • Anger and anxiety;
  • Retaliation fantasies (sometimes shocking the survivor with their graphic violence);
  • Nervous or compulsive behavior;
  • Depression and mood swings;
  • Withdrawal from relationships; and
  • Changes in sexual activity.

Retaliation fantasies

Rape and sexual assault include any unwanted sexual acts. Even if you had previous sexual contact with someone you have the right to say NO to any future sexual acts.

STD and MEDICAL ATTENTION

SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION IF YOU HAVE BEEN ASSAULTED Victims of sexual assault are encouraged to seek medical attention whether the incident is reported to law enforcement or not. Even when injuries are not apparent, it is important to seek medical attention. Injuries which may seem minor at first, can get worse. Medical considerations which make immediate medical attention imperative include:

  • Potential HIV exposure
  • Exposure to other sexually transmitted diseases
  • Rectal and anal tearing and abrasions which may place you at risk for bacterial infections

WHY SHOULD YOU REPORT?

As a victim, many factors may influence your decision to report or not to report to law enforcement. There are advantages if you choose to report:

  • Collection of medical evidence
  • A reestablishment of a sense of control
  • Your report may help protect others

Forced sexual contact

If you have been forced into sexual contact: Tell someone that can help you. You can make a confidential call to your local Rape Crisis Center and remember to:

  • Preserve all physical evidence. Do not bathe, wash, or change clothes.
  • Get medical attention by going to your local hospital emergency room, local health department, or a private physician.
  • Notify the police. Remember that sexual violence is a crime.
  • Consider counseling or talk to someone you trust.

Male Rape

Male Victims: Most individuals grow up thinking that rape happens only to women. If you thought so too, you may feel isolated and alone. The shock of the assault you have experienced may be very upsetting and difficult to deal with. Rape and sexual assault include any unwanted sexual acts. Even if you had previous sexual contact with someone you have the right to say NO to any future sexual acts.

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